Courtesy of the Tardis Data Core. [x]
I think it’s fair to say, at this point, The Doctor and Clara have nothing similar to a family-like relationship. It also appears to be very common knowledge, considering I even found this little snippet from the Doctor Who Wiki.
If you really think the Doctor and Clara are like father and daughter, you’re either lying or blind.
If you don’t ship them, cool. But don’t try to act like it’s absurd to ship them. Don’t try to act like it’s not common knowledge that they are both, at the VERY least, attracted to each other, which shatters any theory you could possibly have about them being like father and daughter.
But hey, you tried.